thanks for replying
I downloaded ODBC driver from mysql, but my problem was happend with mysql connecter socket. because my odbc driver was looking at the diifrent path of mysql . As i sayed earler i am using xamp. i found the conf.php file inside xamp and iopen that file from smultron. got the path of mysql sock .
paste in to the sock path in odbc driver configuration option.
so now its done. even filemaker pro also communicating with that mysql now.
thanks Again for replying