This is the information about SERVER:
This is about the file:
There are two parts:
1) you have to enable FMS to allow incoming ODBC and JDBC connections: admin console > database server > odbc/jdbc tab, or use the toggle on the Status screen
2) in your FM file you have to give the fmxdbc extended privilege to at least one privilege set tied to account
Additionally you may also need to allow your firewall to allow this kind of traffic: port 2399
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