I think you just need a sub summary report. You also need a field to determine the sex and the matiral situation.
Yoy will need three sub reports
It sounds to me that this comes down to sort order, which you determine by your priorities. Since you must have household members grouped then address has to be the first sort field, then surname, then first name.
I would have to agree with both. Just add a sub summary part above or blow your body. create that when sorting by Address. In the subsumarry put in the surname and you'll see the surname reported with all those who live at the same address.